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Feeling embarrassed?

The social discomfort of feeling exposed or foolish. Embarrassment reminds us we care about others' perceptions—which is human, not shameful.

The unmet need

Self-compassion for our imperfection; perspective that this moment will pass; the humor to see our humanity.

A question to sit with

Will this matter in a year? Can I offer myself the same kindness I would give a friend in this situation?

What to do right now

Breathe and say: "This is temporary. I am human." Laugh if you can. Share the story with someone who can help you see the humor in your humanity.

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