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Feeling excluded?

The ache of being on the outside looking in, watching others share connection we're denied. A primal wound that touches our deepest need for community.

The unmet need

Inclusion and the warm feeling of being wanted and welcomed; one place where we are chosen and celebrated.

A question to sit with

Where is there even one person who genuinely wants my presence? Can I turn my energy toward deepening that connection?

What to do right now

Reach out to one person who makes you feel welcome, even with a simple message. Focus your energy on deepening existing connections rather than seeking new belonging.

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