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Feeling fragile?

The state of being easily broken or damaged, requiring gentle handling. Fragility asks us to lower our demands and increase our care.

The unmet need

Tender self-care and reduced expectations; the permission to be delicate without shame; protection from further harm.

A question to sit with

What do I need to set down or postpone to honor this fragility? How can I treat myself as gently as I would a wounded child?

What to do right now

Cancel or postpone one demand today. Create a soft, safe space—blankets, gentle music, warm drinks. Move slowly. Speak to yourself with the tenderness you'd offer a hurt child.

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