Feeling victimized?
The painful experience of being harmed by forces beyond our control. Acknowledging victimization is not self-pity—it's truth-telling.
The unmet need
Validation that the harm was real and unjust; support in reclaiming power without denying the reality of what happened.
A question to sit with
Can I acknowledge what was done to me while also recognizing my agency moving forward? Who can witness this truth with me?
What to do right now
Write down what happened to you: "This was not my fault. I did not deserve this." Share this truth with one trusted person or therapist who can validate your experience.
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