Feeling shocked?
The stunning impact of news or events that violate our expectations so deeply that our system temporarily cannot process it. A form of protective dissociation.
The unmet need
Gentle return to the body; basic care and presence; time to slowly integrate the unthinkable.
A question to sit with
What do I need in this moment to feel held while I absorb this shock? Can I take one breath, then another?
What to do right now
Sit or lie down in a safe place. Take three slow, deep breaths. Drink water. Reach out to one trusted person for presence, not solutions. Allow time to process without forcing understanding.
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